Invitation-only ·  Every member screened by people

Meet someone worth knowing. Privately.

meetmepriv is a members-only chat platform for people who are serious about meeting someone. Our team screens every member, makes every introduction by hand, and keeps every conversation between the two people in it.

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Screened by peopleNot by an algorithm or a form.
Invitation-only accessA private link, sent to you by email.
No public profilesNothing searchable, nothing indexed.
One introduction at a timeSo each one gets your attention.

Dating apps measure success in swipes and minutes spent. We measure it in conversations that actually go somewhere. So we keep things small, private and human — a team that knows every member, introductions made one at a time, and a chat that belongs only to the two of you.

How it works

Five steps. No sign-up form.

Every member starts the same way — by writing to us. It's slower than an app store download, and that's exactly why it works.

  1. 01

    Send us an email

    Write to admin@meetmepriv.cc with a few lines about yourself and what you're hoping to find. No forms, no photos required at this stage.

  2. 02

    A short screening

    A friendly conversation with our team and an identity check. We're looking for people who are real, kind and genuinely looking — not people who look good on paper.

  3. 03

    Membership & payment

    If we're a good fit for each other, we'll explain membership and arrange payment personally. Your fee pays for real screening — and keeps us free of ads.

  4. 04

    Your private link arrives

    We email you a personal access link. That link is your key — there's no public login page, no username and no password to forget.

  5. 05

    Your first introduction

    We introduce you to someone we think you'll genuinely want to talk to, with a note explaining why. From there, the conversation is yours.

The introduction

No match scores. Just a good reason.

Every introduction arrives with a short note from the person who made it — what you have in common, and what you'll probably disagree about.

You can start the conversation, ask your introducer a question first, or pass politely. The other person has exactly the same choice. Nobody is ever shown to you as a list.

IntroductionFor Nadia only

Nadia, meet Owen.

I've spoken with you both, and I think this one's worth your time. Here's why:

  1. You both took up sailing in your thirties and both capsized in the first month.
  2. You both told me you'd rather call than text all day.
  3. He thinks pineapple belongs on pizza. I trust you'll work through it.

— Iris, meetmepriv

The platform

Built for two people, not two thousand.

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Owen, 34Lisbon · architect
Today

Iris: “You both took up something hard in your thirties and refused to quit.”

Start talking Ask Iris

That's it. One person, with a reason.

Membership

Membership begins with a conversation.

We keep meetmepriv deliberately small. That means we sometimes say no — and it means every person you meet here has been through exactly the same process as you.

Membership is a paid service. Fees are explained to you personally once screening is complete, so you'll only be asked to pay when we both agree it's a good fit.

Write to us
  • Personal screeningA real conversation and full identity verification.
  • Hand-made introductionsOne at a time, each with a note on why.
  • Private chat spaceLink-based access. No public profile, ever.
  • A team you can reachQuestions and concerns go straight to a person.
  • No ads, no data saleMembers fund the platform. You're not the product.
  • Pause any timeStep away when life gets busy, come back when it doesn't.

FAQ

Before you write to us.

Can't find your answer? Email admin@meetmepriv.cc — a person will reply, usually within a day.

Our team contacted me. How do I log in?

Your personal access link has already been sent to you by email. Open it on the device you want to use and you'll be signed straight in. Can't find it? Search your inbox and spam folder for “meetmepriv”, or write to us and we'll resend it.

Why can't I sign up on the website?

Open sign-up is how other platforms fill up with bots, scammers and people who aren't really looking. Everyone here has spoken with our team first. It's slower — that's the point.

What does screening involve?

A short conversation about you and what you're looking for, followed by identity verification. It usually takes a few days from your first email, and we'll tell you clearly whether it's a fit.

Why is membership paid?

Screening properly and making thoughtful introductions takes real time from real people. Membership fees mean we never need advertising or to sell your data — and that everyone here is serious.

Who can see my profile?

Only the people you're introduced to, and only once the introduction is made. There's no browsing or search inside the platform, and nothing about you is public on the web.

What if an introduction doesn't feel right?

Pass politely, or tell your introducer why — we use every piece of feedback to make the next introduction better. If anything ever feels unsafe, our team steps in straight away.

Your introduction starts with one email.

admin@meetmepriv.cc